ROOTED IN RECOVERY FOR FAMILIES
From living in constant chaos to reclaiming peace that no longer depends on someone else’s sobriety.
“I finally stopped waiting for their recovery to give me permission to exhale.”
A trauma-informed healing pathway for families impacted by addiction created by Jennifer Thumm, LPC.
Learn moreYOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO CARRY THIS ALONE
Addiction impacts more than the person struggling.
It impacts the entire nervous system of the family.
Over time, life can begin revolving around:
- crisis management
- emotional unpredictability
- financial stress
- hypervigilance
- fear
- emotional exhaustion
- trying to prevent the next disaster
You may love someone deeply and still feel:
- emotionally depleted
- resentful
- anxious
- overwhelmed
- numb
- constantly on edge
Not because you do not care.
But because your nervous system has been trying to survive prolonged chaos for far too long.
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Rooted in Recovery for Families was created to help loved ones:
- stop living in survival mode
- establish healthy boundaries
- heal attachment wounds
- regulate emotional overwhelm
- stop enabling cycles
- reclaim peace independent of another person’s choices
Without losing their compassion in the process.
THIS IS WHAT ADDICTION CAN DO TO A FAMILY SYSTEM
Maybe you:
- constantly monitor whether they are sober
- feel anxious every time your phone rings
- financially rescue them repeatedly
- walk on eggshells to avoid conflict
- feel manipulated by promises that never last
- struggle saying “no”
- feel guilt prioritizing yourself
- live in chronic emotional exhaustion
- feel trapped between hope and disappointment
- cannot fully relax because you are always waiting for the next crisis
And maybe underneath it all…
…you are desperately trying to hold your family together while slowly losing yourself.
WHY NOTHING HAS CHANGED YET
1. You Cannot Control A Disease You Did Not Cause
Many families unknowingly enter survival roles:
- fixer
- rescuer
- peacekeeper
- over-functioner
- caretaker
Not because they are weak.
Because they are terrified.
But addiction cannot be controlled through hypervigilance, rescuing, or self-sacrifice.
And eventually, trying to save everyone else begins destroying your own nervous system too.
2. Helping Has Slowly Become Enabling
Many loving family members unintentionally protect the addiction cycle by:
- removing consequences
- financially rescuing
- over-accommodating
- over-functioning
- abandoning their own boundaries
Not because they do not care.
Because they care deeply.
Inside this program, you’ll learn how to establish compassionate boundaries without abandoning empathy.
3. Addiction Creates Nervous System Trauma
Living inside chronic unpredictability changes the body.
Many loved ones develop:
- hypervigilance
- anxiety
- emotional shutdown
- chronic stress responses
- sleep disruption
- burnout
- emotional reactivity
This is not simply “stress.”
It is nervous system dysregulation caused by prolonged emotional instability.
And healing requires more than coping.
It requires nervous system restoration.
INTRODUCING ROOTED IN RECOVERY FOR FAMILIES
A 6-part trauma-informed framework designed to help families impacted by addiction reclaim peace, rebuild trust, and heal attachment wounds safely.
Inside this program, you will learn how to:
- stop enabling cycles
- establish healthy boundaries
- regulate emotional overwhelm
- process grief and betrayal
- understand attachment trauma
- rebuild trust safely
- reconnect with yourself outside the addiction cycle
- create healthier family dynamics
Without carrying the impossible burden of trying to control someone else’s recovery.
Enroll In Rooted In Recovery For FamiliesTHE 6-PART FRAMEWORK
Every module combines:
- trauma-informed education
- nervous system regulation tools
- somatic healing practices
- practical family recovery strategies
- emotional integration support
And every module includes an exclusive deep-dive companion E-Book authored by Jennifer Thumm, LPC, providing clinical insight into addiction, attachment trauma, and somatic healing tools.
MODULE 1 — THE FOUNDATION
MODULE 2 — THE ROOT
MODULE 3 — DROPPING THE ANCHOR
MODULE 4 — THE SHIELD
MODULE 5 — THE INTEGRATION
MODULE 6 — RECLAIMING YOUR COMPASS
WHY OUR DELIVERY MODEL IS DIFFERENT
We Refuse To Overwhelm Nervous Systems Already Living In Chronic Stress
Families impacted by addiction are often already emotionally overloaded.
That’s why Rooted in Recovery for Families uses a trauma-informed paced-delivery structure designed specifically to support:
- emotional safety
- gradual healing
- nervous system regulation
- sustainable integration
Most programs encourage binge-learning.
We prioritize:
- regulation over urgency
- safety over pressure
- integration over overload
Because true healing cannot happen inside a flooded nervous system.
Enroll nowJoin the Rooted In Recovery For Families.
You’ll receive:
- Instant access to all 6 modules
- Complete companion E-Book library authored by the Haven Collective
- All bonuses and integration workbooks
- 6 months inside The Haven Integration Community
- Monthly live group coaching support
The deepest level of support for families ready to reclaim lasting peace and relational healing.
$2,499 One-Time Or Pay in 4 installements
Enroll In Rooted In Recovery For FamiliesA Unified Front for Your Family
Therapy to heal the root. Coaching to build the routine.
A sanctuary to hold the process.
This is The Haven Collective.
We don't just treat the symptoms. We heal the entire ecosystem.
At The Haven Collective, we know that true, lasting healing requires more than 45 minutes on a clinical couch. It requires a multidisciplinary approach that addresses the neurobiological root of trauma, provides the logistical coaching to change daily habits, and offers an environment where the nervous system can actually exhale.
To achieve this, we have assembled a powerhouse leadership team. By bridging master’s-level clinical psychotherapy, specialized educational advocacy, and actionable family-systems coaching, our team provides a seamless, "cradle-to-flourishing" pathway for your family.
Meet the experts leading your healing journey.
Jennifer Thumm, LPC
Visionary, CEO & Clinical Director
Jennifer is the architect and clinical engine behind The Haven Collective. As a Licensed Professional Counselor with deep, ongoing post-graduate specialization in infant, child, and family mental health, Jennifer built this ecosystem to solve the exact problem exhausting today’s families: the massive gap between clinical therapy and real-world application.
Uniquely dual-credentialed with an extensive background in Early Childhood, Elementary, and Special Education, Jennifer speaks both the language of the nervous system and the language of the school district. She understands that a child’s dysregulation cannot be "managed" by behavior charts—it must be healed through somatic safety.
As the Lead Facilitator for our clinical immersions at Haven Family Farms, Jennifer takes therapy out of the clinic and into the pasture. Utilizing animal-assisted interventions (including our quarter horses and therapy dogs) and regenerative nature-based practices, she guides neurodivergent and trauma-affected families out of chronic survival mode and into deep, measurable connection.
Haven Collective Coaching Partners:
Home Team / Liz & Josh Nolz
Liz and Josh Nolz are co-founders of Home Team and a husband-and-wife coaching duo committed to whole-person healing. With complementary backgrounds in wellness, counseling, ministry, leadership, and family systems, they offer a powerful team-based approach to coaching that is both compassionate and practical.
They are known for creating a safe, judgment-free space where individuals and couples can explore their stories and rediscover connection. Together, they draw from decades of experience—including behavior change coaching, nutritional counseling, emotional healing, spiritual direction, personal development, and executive leadership.
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Footprints Healing / Angela Dougherty
Angi is a Trauma-Informed Coach who walks alongside individuals and families navigating the difficult aftermath of narcissistic and high-conflict relationships. Her approach combines compassionate support and practical strategies, along with an understanding of how relational trauma can impact a person’s ability to feel safe, communicate clearly, trust themselves, and move forward.
A significant focus of Angi’s work is helping individuals heal from narcissistic relationships and patterns of emotional and relational abuse. She helps clients recognize unhealthy dynamics, rebuild confidence in their own voice and decision-making, establish and maintain healthy boundaries, and begin creating a life that is no longer controlled by fear, manipulation, or conflict.
Angi also offers Trauma-Informed Court Support & Accompaniment for individuals facing family court and other emotionally difficult legal proceedings. While she does not provide legal advice or legal representation, she helps clients prepare emotionally and practically for court, organize their thoughts and concerns, identify healthy communication strategies, remain grounded during stressful proceedings, and process the experience afterward. When appropriate and permitted, she can also provide in-person accompaniment so clients do not have to navigate an intimidating court experience without support.
Through Facilitated Communication Coaching Sessions, Angi provides a structured, trauma-informed environment for difficult conversations between adults. She helps participants slow down reactive communication, establish boundaries for the conversation, identify the issues that actually need to be addressed, and communicate in a way that keeps the focus on clarity, respect, and productive next steps.Whether someone is trying to heal from a narcissistic relationship, navigate high-conflict family dynamics, prepare for court, strengthen boundaries, or have a conversation that feels impossible to have alone, Angi provides steady, practical, trauma-informed support for the next step forward.
Lisa Shaw, LPC, CADC
Lead Clinical Trauma Specialist
Lisa brings profound clinical depth and unwavering steady support to The Haven Collective. As a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC), Lisa specializes in the heavy lifting of deep trauma resolution.
Lisa handles the clinical complexities that keep individuals and families anchored in the past. As our resident EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) specialist, she expertly guides clients through the neurobiological rewiring of severe trauma, PTSD, and the painful family dynamics of addiction recovery.
Operating as the Co-Lead Facilitator for our Track A Clinical Retreats and Family Intensives, Lisa provides the clinical safety net required for clients to process their darkest moments. Her approach is deeply empathetic but grounded in evidence-based reality, ensuring clients don't just talk about their pain—they actually resolve it at the root.
THIS PROGRAM IS
FOR YOU IF…
- You feel emotionally exhausted by addiction cycles
- Your peace depends on someone else’s choices
- You struggle setting boundaries
- You constantly rescue or over-function
- You feel trapped in hypervigilance
- You want trauma-informed recovery support
- You are carrying resentment and guilt simultaneously
- You want healthier family dynamics
- You are ready to stop living in crisis mode
- You want healing that feels safe, compassionate, and sustainable
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Is this therapy?
Is this only for spouses?
What if my loved one is not sober yet?
Will this help me establish boundaries without guilt?
What if I already feel emotionally overwhelmed?
You deserve peace even if someone you love is still struggling.
You deserve:
- boundaries
- nervous system safety
- emotional rest
- support
- healing
- clarity
- a life that no longer revolves around crisis
And you do not need to abandon yourself to love someone else.
Maybe it’s finally time to stop carrying the entire weight of survival alone.
Enroll In Rooted In Recovery For Families